3 biggest mistakes in romantic relationship. Are you making them?

To be satisfied in a fulfilling, harmonious and supportive relationship is a dream shared by everyone. But not many of us are able to fulfill it. Often, we don’t even know where we make mistakes. From my own experience, as well as the experience of thousands of women whom I have guided on their way to better relationships wąith men, I have compiled a list of the 3 most common mistakes that prevent us from experiencing beautiful relationships. Are you guilty of any of them?

You expect that the relationship or your significant other alone will make you happy.

I’m sorry, but even the most ideal partner in the world can’t do that. And let’s be honest, you probably wouldn’t want to bear the burden of responsibility for someone else’s happiness either. Relationships work like a magnifying glass that enhances everything that you haven’t processed in yourself – all the limiting beliefs, fears, blockers, and injuries from the past. All this will fully manifest in the relationship. If you are not happy as single, no partner or relationship will change that.

Before you start working on your relationship and “fixing” your partner, try to focus on yourself first. Find out what you need to heal in yourself, to reach inner peace and happiness. Only through this transformative experience will you be able to find a suitable partner for you, create and maintain a strong and fulfilling relationship.

You refuse to take full responsibility for what is happening in your relationship.

A core rule of every relationship should be that it must be created jointly, equally, 50:50. You cannot say that something is the other’s fault or responsibility without acknowledging your 50 percent share in the situation. Believe me, you are never innocent in this, even if it may seem that way at first glance. But don’t be alarmed, this knowledge gives you the power to improve the relationship.

I’ll give you a simple example. The man refuses to spend time with you, he prefers to be alone or with someone else. Yes, you can blame him and refuse to do anything about it, unless he changes his attitude. However, if you realize that half of the responsibility lies with you, you can affect the change. Ask yourself: “What made him stop wanting to spend time with me? How am I communicating with him? How am I treating him? Am I giving him enough space?” This self-reflection will help you recognize the responsibility on your side and find a way to improve the relationship together.

You treat your man as an equal…woman!

Misunderstanding the basic differences between men and women is a huge mistake we constantly make in our relationships. Many of us do not realize that women and men are different in how they communicate, how they experience their intimacy, diverse in needing space, processing emotions and experiences. If you approach your man exactly the way you would like him to approach you, you will not achieve a harmonious relationship, respect his differences. Pave the way to a beautiful relationship by clearly but lovingly communicating your idea of how you would like him to treat you.

So, have you recognized any of these mistakes? Or, based on your own experience, would you like to add to the list any mistakes you are aware of making in relationships? I’ll be happy if you send me a message. You can find me for example on Facebook.