Why is this happening to me?!

You must have been afraid of something in your life and you were constantly thinking about what bad things could happen to you. And I bet that when the situation finally came up, something like that really happened to you. It may have been uncomfortable for you at the time, but trust me, that very experience can move you forward to a happier and more contented life now.

How could it, you ask?

Our mind-set is powerful, even more powerful than most of us can ever imagine. And that mind-set is what can move you forward by leaps and bounds, or keep you feeling like “nothing good will ever happen to me” or “I’m just not happy in life and nothing will ever work out the way I want it to”. But now, please think about it – how much time before the unpleasant situation did you spend thinking that everything would work out in your favor, compared to how much time you spent thinking about all the outright horror scenarios of what bad things could happen to you?

How do we materialize what we (don’t) want

A lot of people are always conditioning their lives – only when they have something, only when something happens in their lives, only then will they finally be better off and happy. For example, only when I have a beautiful partner relationship, then I will feel happy and satisfied. But that’s not how it works, unfortunately. Even, it’s just the opposite.

Because by how we feel right now, we are materializing (attracting) the reality that will happen to us.

Everything is our mind’s fault

Our nervous system filters millions of pieces of information from our surroundings every day and only lets a certain amount into our consciousness. According to what key does this happen? According to whether we relate to the information, whether it is somehow relevant to us. Did it ever happen to you that you bought a new car and suddenly the streets were flooded with the same type of cars? Was it because a factory suddenly unleashed thousands of identical cars into the world just so you could see them? Or was it because your nervous system started to release this familiar information to you? It’s the same with our thoughts.

Reality just reflects our thinking

If your system is set up to believe that only bad things happen to you, that you never get lucky in anything, and while everything goes smoothly for others, you have to work hard to achieve even half of their easily gained success, that’s really how it will be. If this is how you feel, if this is the essence of who you really are, that you are a poor woman who is having a very hard time in life, what do you think your system will validate, what will it “dismiss”? Exactly. There will be nothing but reassurance coming from every side that this is the case. You are putting yourself in the position of a defenseless victim who is being crushed by life. You are subconsciously, but consistently, choosing this reality of yours – after all, it belongs to you, this is who you are. And until you change this inner setting, until you allow yourself to allow success, happiness, lightness, ease to enter your life, until then you will live your sad reality.

You can learn to think differently

The very first step is to get out of the “victim” program – this program helped us as defenseless children. Things actually happened to us, we didn’t have much say in when we went to school, what was for lunch, in many cases the school that determined our careers was chosen for us. But now, not only is he no longer serving us, he’s destroying our happiness and it’s time to say goodbye. It’s time to take full control, responsibility, but also incredible opportunity and start shaping our lives to our liking. It’s a wonderful, liberating feeling to know that you no longer have to be that Baby waiting for her Patrick Swayze to come pull her out onto the dance floor. Be the star of your own life, be the one who shines, not the one in a dark corner waiting for her turn to come along one day.

Don’t let things happen to you – be the one who creates your present and future.

Please let me help you

It may sound strange, but our minds can be shaped the way we shape our muscles. In both cases, however, it will take intensive training, and in both cases it is ideal to have an experienced coach help you in the beginning. You’ll be given precise step-by-step instructions to follow, encouraged when you need it, so that you’ll soon see and feel the fruits of your hard work. In my 10+ years of practice, I have helped thousands of people change their mindset and thus change their whole life. If you too are yearning for change, I invite you to my proven and highly sought after WHY I DON’T training, where we will cover the very topic of mind-setting, even in different areas of your life. The online training will be 5 days long and starts on 9.2.2023. You can sign up for it at this link, where you can also find more information. I will be very happy if one day I get a message like this from you too: “Thank you, Katka, for all your wisdom, your advice and your support, because thanks to you I am finally living a life that I once didn’t even dare to dream of.”